The seven adult children of Bernard Sr. and Lorraine were pitted against each other in what was a “boys side” and a “girls side”. What was happening here?
It appeared to us, Nina and Jean, the attorney’s were not working together for the betterment of whatever solution could work for an 89-year-old person. It appeared to us to be a situation similar to a divide and conquer. And we questioned and wondered to ourselves, what exactly was Lorraine’s Court appointed attorney supposed to do?
Why did we, Nina and Jean have to find an attorney, and pay thousands of dollars to fight for our mother’s welfare and rights? No one was asking our mother anything. No one was asking our mother how she felt. What had gone terribly wrong?